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I'm such a killjoy, right? by Rebi-Valeska I'm such a killjoy, right? by Rebi-Valeska
I don't receive these "benefits" and "truths" of pornography:

"Porn is fun to watch with your partner and it gives you ideas for sex."
Not to me. I don't want to watch some other girl having sex with someone she probably doesn't even know. I don't even find that even romantic in the slightest. If my boyfriend wanted to watch porn with me, I'd take offense to it because it makes me feel like either I'm getting boring because I don't do what those girls do, or I'm no good at foreplay because he has to rely on porn turn him on. I'm not being selfish, because I know I would do my best to get the best advice for how to treat my boy in bed in a more comfortable way.

"Porn helps people release sexual urges."
I don't care if people masturbate to porn. Unless I'm planning on dating them. Why? Because I don't want him to think that what he sees on porn-movies is what's going to happen in reality. What's more, I've had ex-boyfriends who watched porn and because of that they were more visually stimulated, so they had asked me to send them naked pictures of myself so they have something to jack-off to. I never should have, because it scarred me for LIFE. 

"Porn is art in motion"
I don't see anything artistic about seeing someone stick something in someone's holes. ANYONE can do that. But wait, I already hear people saying "but people DRAW porn, isn't that artistic"? You actually think that the content an artist draws should be labeled as artistic simply because it's drawn? Then we should make murder an artistic thing, since people love to draw that? That sort of logic holds no water for me.

"Porn doesn't harm anyone"
Yes it can, unless you happen to find someone who is into that sort of thing. It's hurts trust and excessive engagement may even hurt people psychologically. Hell, there is a minority of girls/guys who partake into the actual porn production that may experience some trauma of some sort. If there is no mutual and trusting consent, then watching porn will affect your relationships with your girlfriend, your wife and kids, your future lovers, your job, your money, your computer, etc. It can even affect your health: porn has the influence to lead many people into severe sexual addiction per year. It can also rewire your brain to only be stimulated by certain things that common people may not regularly do in intimate settings: therefore restricting the value and variety of intimacy with your spouse/lover. Also, what about the people who used to be in the porn industry/ watched porn but regret it to this day? They may have to live with that feeling of regret for the rest of their lives and they cannot remove the damage such as loosing their day job or the respect of their spouses/family/etc. 
Yes, people CAN watch porn and be bothered by it. It's NOT strange at all since people do not always share the same comfort zones and values about their urges.


I'll tell you what the usage of porn has done for me:
It was the main cause for my step-father to cheat on my mother with a girl MY age & later their seperation. 
It was the main cause for my trust issues with ex-boyfriends. One of them prefered to go to a strip-club than spend time with me.
It made ME feel insecure about my own abilities to please my future love
It has caused me only temporary pleasure and fame, and a life-time amount of guilt
It made me feel used and even guilty whenever I was asked for things I was uncomfortable to give.
It has caused me to have relationship commitment issues.

TLDR: Why do I feel so insecure about porn? Because my body was abused.


If you love porn, whatever, it's your business and this wasn't meant to attack people who watch it. It only matters towards anyone I would become romantically interested in.
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:iconthe13throse:
the13throse Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist Writer
I personally have nothing against those who watch it in moderation, but I am not interested in it at all. I am quite convinced that I am asexual, but I am not aromantic. I can have romantic feelings for people, just not sexual desire.
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tultsi93 Featured By Owner Edited 2 days ago  Hobbyist Artist
I hate porn, too. It's only fare collection with males or females, who's  doing this job, because they don't have better job. I htink that kind of people are exist, too. Everyone can't enjoy something dirty like porn. I like sex if it's NOT the story's main thing but sex IS porn's main thing!
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AriaBIazeLover Featured By Owner 5 days ago  New member Hobbyist
Porn makes you a weirdo. End of story.
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CatImAKittyKat Featured By Owner Apr 19, 2015
Plus,constant sex can screw up your insides.
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AriaBIazeLover Featured By Owner 5 days ago  New member Hobbyist
:thumbsup:
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CatImAKittyKat Featured By Owner 5 days ago
Yay ^^
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Rainbow-Sunlight Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I DID NOT KNOW THAT
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CatImAKittyKat Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2015
:iconthemoreyouknowplz:
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Mama-Malamute Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Like everything in the world, I think too much of a thing is bad. Im sorry to hear what it's done in your life but even if I dont oppose it I do enjoy the fact you gave very tasteful points to why you don't like it. I personally don't watch any porn, seeing people get it on is weird (happens when you grow up with anime sex scenes)
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2015
Porn is evil. But it actually helps people to learn how to have sex.
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Mama-Malamute Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wow that's exactly the same thing I've heard about/thought about from every virgin ever. Minus the evil part. Also porn is techically sex but you dont approve of one over the other lol okkkk
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Lol. But the evil part is when you watch it you become so addicted to it. But I have nothing against porn anyway or hating others for watching it. 
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NatReksio Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Lmao no, I didn't learn anything from porn, how did you get this ridiculous idea?
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2015
Some people I know don't go to sex ed and they don't understand how to have sex.
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NatReksio Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I didn't learn sex in sex ed either, I only learned things about the phallus.
I learned how to have sex from actually having sex, porn gives people false expectations of what sex is like.
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner Apr 11, 2015
Well what's sex ed for then? There has to be a reason you know.
I got a question are you married? What's porn for then? Prevs who has no life? 
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NatReksio Featured By Owner Apr 11, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sex Ed taught me about how the penis works and what happens during straight sex, not really helpful for anyone.

And no, I'm not married and don't plan to get married any time soon.
Porn is for people that enjoy/get off on watching others having sex, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Porn isn't meant to be some kind of educational piece of media, I never thought I'd have to explain that.
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner Apr 13, 2015
Well government shouldn't allow sex ed if it doesn't help people then.

So who did you have sex? Like boy friend or some random guy? But you know if you get pregnant your married now or if your lesbian then that explains it.
You mean those bunch of those perves with no life? I think porn is evil and they should be removed.
A lot of people told me that but I don't trust you if you explain or tell me.
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NightcoreandPewds Featured By Owner Apr 3, 2015
Porn's a waste of time. It's disgusting and I have never watched it. Quite frankly, I probably never will.
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loriLUNACY Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
It makes me happy when I find people like you. May I add that it's very rare. I agree with everything you have said in your artist comment and it has actually comforted me, this kind of thing really gets to me sometimes, sexism gets me down. It's nice to see that there are still people out there who are still human. Thank you for this.

I can't wait for the day that we have total and complete equality. Down with the porn and sexism. Women should not be sexualised like they are, it's just disgusting. 
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ACYRLICDlNER Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I accidentally ran into horrible porn the other day. So glad I can forget stuff easily and quickly.
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myfev Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2015  New member
WHAT IF PORN WAS THIS ONLY JOB 
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AshlynArt-100 Featured By Owner Edited Mar 24, 2015  New member Hobbyist Artist
I saw a bunch of porn pictures by accident
Never again
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Adam-Walker Featured By Owner Edited Mar 18, 2015   Writer
katzensaft.deviantart.com/art/… Unless you mean very extreme porn.
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annieIeonhardt Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2015  Student General Artist
honey you don't know what rape is so yeah just 
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vannaToonz Featured By Owner Edited Apr 10, 2015  New member Hobbyist Filmographer
For one,I do-_- Don't be a dumb assXD It's REALLY sad seeing all these dumb ass butthurt men like you:)
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myfev Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2015  New member
DUMASS
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Scifimaster92 Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2015
Even though I'm an atheist, I totally agree with you here. The porn industry is nothing more than a massive human rights violation, since it is basically sex slavery. What is particularly irritating is that no one else seems to think of it as such, and even those who do acknowledge its abuses still think of it as being a necessary evil of society. Face it - it is no way progressive to defend a multi-billion dollar industry that harms women, stunts our sexuality, portrays sexual violence against women as a natural and inevitable part of male sexuality, reinforces male domination in society and the idea that men are entitled to sexual access to a woman's body, portrays sex and women as dirty and disgusting (of which they are neither), promotes misogynistic beauty standards, and ultimately affects everyone regardless of whether or not they use porn or not.
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Kimba-417 Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015
Agreed.
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:iconnlklta:
NlKlTA Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2015  Student Writer
.porn
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:iconkimba-417:
Kimba-417 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2015
I HATE porn! *stamp fave cuz I agree with it*
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TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
You're a bloody IDIOT.
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:icondefleshed-martyr:
Defleshed-Martyr Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
People are allowed to have different opinions, you know.
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:iconthedarkwepon:
TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
And I'm allowed to call them out on it.
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:icondefleshed-martyr:
Defleshed-Martyr Featured By Owner Edited Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
But not in the way you did before.


Calling people idiots just because they hate porn makes you look childish. :V
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TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Not to anyone who respects the best thing about the internet even a little.
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:icondefleshed-martyr:
Defleshed-Martyr Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Rabid fanboy much? :P
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:iconthedarkwepon:
TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Excuse me for holding value to something worthwhile.
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Kimba-417 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015
You're a motherfucking douchebag! I'm not an idiot for hating disgusting shit! Porn is for horny rapists!
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TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Porn, my dear little idiot, is for reasonable teens and adults that have a solid grip on reality and a healthy sexuality. 
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Kimba-417 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015
Actually, not quite. Porn is for teens and adults who are obsessed with sex. It doesn't make me an idiot if I don't like to watch some random whores and manwhores fucking eachother. It's gross, and I couldn't fap even if I wanted to cuz I'm female. I will wait to have sex until I am at least 25. Porn is for horny scumbags. Now fuck off, you're the real idiot you damn whore.
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TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
God you're a sad, disgusting, boring individual.
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Kimba-417 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015
Would you fuck off! I don't have to like porn just because manwhores like you do. It doesn't make me boring, it makes me somebody who isn't a horny, classless slut. If you wanna watch that shit then fine, but I won't. So fuck off and respect other people's opinions!
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TheDarkWepon Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Ok if I was a prostitute you might have a point, but jerking it to porn doesn't make me a manwhore you dumb fucking bitch.
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2015
Can you make another stamp about anti animal porn? Because I seen some bronies preferring Ponies instead of human porn. XP
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XMonochrome-NimbusX Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
*cough**cough*Tumblr*cough**cough*
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nineninefox Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  New member  Filmographer
It's ok if you like it I'm never going to look at it
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TheiCarlyAngel Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2015  Student Artist
Porn is for perverted low life losers. :P Can't get their heads out of other peoples' butts. :P
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myfev Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2015  New member
POVE IT
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