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I'm such a killjoy, right? by Rebi-Valeska I'm such a killjoy, right? by Rebi-Valeska
I don't receive these "benefits" and "truths" of pornography:

"Porn is fun to watch with your partner and it gives you ideas for sex."
Not to me. I don't want to watch some other girl having sex with someone she probably doesn't even know. I don't even find that even romantic in the slightest. If my boyfriend wanted to watch porn with me, I'd take offense to it because it makes me feel like either I'm getting boring because I don't do what those girls do, or I'm no good at foreplay because he has to rely on porn turn him on. I'm not being selfish, because I know I would do my best to get the best advice for how to treat my boy in bed in a more comfortable way.

"Porn helps people release sexual urges."
I don't care if people masturbate to porn. Unless I'm planning on dating them. Why? Because I don't want him to think that what he sees on porn-movies is what's going to happen in reality. What's more, I've had ex-boyfriends who watched porn and because of that they were more visually stimulated, so they had asked me to send them naked pictures of myself so they have something to jack-off to. I never should have, because it scarred me for LIFE. 

"Porn is art in motion"
I don't see anything artistic about seeing someone stick something in someone's holes. ANYONE can do that. But wait, I already hear people saying "but people DRAW porn, isn't that artistic"? You actually think that the content an artist draws should be labeled as artistic simply because it's drawn? Then we should make murder an artistic thing, since people love to draw that? That sort of logic holds no water for me.

"Porn doesn't harm anyone"
Yes it can, unless you happen to find someone who is into that sort of thing. It's hurts trust and excessive engagement may even hurt people psychologically. Hell, there is a minority of girls/guys who partake into the actual porn production that may experience some trauma of some sort. If there is no mutual and trusting consent, then watching porn will affect your relationships with your girlfriend, your wife and kids, your future lovers, your job, your money, your computer, etc. It can even affect your health: porn has the influence to lead many people into severe sexual addiction per year. It can also rewire your brain to only be stimulated by certain things that common people may not regularly do in intimate settings: therefore restricting the value and variety of intimacy with your spouse/lover. Also, what about the people who used to be in the porn industry/ watched porn but regret it to this day? They may have to live with that feeling of regret for the rest of their lives and they cannot remove the damage such as loosing their day job or the respect of their spouses/family/etc. 
Yes, people CAN watch porn and be bothered by it. It's NOT strange at all since people do not always share the same comfort zones and values about their urges.


I'll tell you what the usage of porn has done for me:
It was the main cause for my step-father to cheat on my mother with a girl MY age & later their seperation. 
It was the main cause for my trust issues with ex-boyfriends. One of them prefered to go to a strip-club than spend time with me.
It made ME feel insecure about my own abilities to please my future love
It has caused me only temporary pleasure and fame, and a life-time amount of guilt
It made me feel used and even guilty whenever I was asked for things I was uncomfortable to give.
It has caused me to have relationship commitment issues.

TLDR: Why do I feel so insecure about porn? Because my body was abused.


If you love porn, whatever, it's your business and this wasn't meant to attack people who watch it. It only matters towards anyone I would become romantically interested in.
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Darkfall303 Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2015
Can you make another stamp about anti animal porn? Because I seen some bronies preferring Ponies instead of human porn. XP
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XMonochrome-NimbusX Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
*cough**cough*Tumblr*cough**cough*
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nineninefox Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  New member  Filmographer
It's ok if you like it I'm never going to look at it
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TheiCarlyAngel Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2015  Student Artist
Porn is for perverted low life losers. :P Can't get their heads out of other peoples' butts. :P
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Freiheit1994 Featured By Owner Feb 17, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Wow, thank you for making such an unfair judgement about me or anyone that happens to enjoy porn. You must somehow know my entire life's story. Grats, sugar tits.
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TheiCarlyAngel Featured By Owner Feb 17, 2015  Student Artist
Thanks, sugar butt. Dunno what I'd do without you.
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xXTehAmyXx Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I agree totally.
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TheDazzlingHipster Featured By Owner Jan 15, 2015  New member
I find it freKing disgusting. Sure, I draw big breasts, but I don't draw nipples. And besides, penises are the most ugliest things I have ever seen.
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PapiChamp Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015
Lmao ''penises are the most ugliest things I have ever seen'' this sounds something like a skinny 5th grader girl would say.
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SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Edited Jan 21, 2015
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YOU HAVE WON GOOD SIR!
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PapiChamp Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2015
no u
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TheDazzlingHipster Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2015  New member
K.
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lynda-hybrida Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Porn can actually caused someone to get raped.
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:iconsealytheseal:
SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2015
You have officially made my day, I can't stop laughing my ass off at the stupidity of this comment! XDDDDDDDDDD
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lynda-hybrida Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Actually yes it can
If you read weeaboo stories, You can find tons of cosplayer's stories about them almost getting raped by a neckbeard no-life weeaboo's.
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SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2015
If you think that won'twhiny baby, then stop reading anime sstories and focus on real life big ol'angry teen! XD
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:iconlynda-hybrida:
lynda-hybrida Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
First of all
Learn a better fucking grammar, And weeaboo stories are based on real life stories about people getting harassed by a no-life neckbeard idiots who live in their mom's basement, Dumbass.
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SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2015
If dat were true, it wood bees on the news bitchy ass mother fucker.
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:iconlynda-hybrida:
lynda-hybrida Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Looks like someone needs a better grammar ;)
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SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2015
I'm using my phone, it's not as good aft in the computer.
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SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2015
At least im not stupid u.liek u
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Ryuuseinow Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Eh, most pornos are ugly anyway (thought i never really watched mainstream porn)
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illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
I was looking around on the internet and there was a pop-up to a porn site. There was pictures of girls that look 9-11 and it was horrifying.... HORRIFYING I TELL YOU.
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xXTehAmyXx Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2015  Student Digital Artist
O-O
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SealyTheSeal Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2015
9-11, THAT'S SAYING SOMETHING BRUH!    :iconbuildingplz:       :iconplaneplz:
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Rainbow-Sunlight Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
um....that's fucking terrifying.....

Unless it's those types up women who LOOK like kids....

But still.....
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PapiChamp Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015
What makes it horrifying beside the age? btw glad I didn't see it..
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Squirates Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
People it's her opinion.
If you don't agree that's fine.
I'm perfectly fine with pornography, it all depends on how you use it, anything can be harmful if used wrong.
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PapiChamp Featured By Owner Edited Jan 6, 2015
Well, porn will still be here and nothing you people can do about it.
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:iconilly2002:
illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Ok same with perverts cant make everyone into porno.
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PapiChamp Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015
Indeed.
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:iconilly2002:
illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Yep bro :icondatgoldplz:
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PapiChamp Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015
Yes but I really don't look at it that much after I saw some ''brutal'' porn or some shit like that....
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:iconilly2002:
illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
yeah. :T
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NeonBee Featured By Owner Jan 6, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I can't favourite this stamp enough times ;_;
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DaftSilverInTheFlesh Featured By Owner Jan 4, 2015
People commenting on this stamp calling it stupid are some of the most hateful people I've seen :/

And also prime examples of people who don't READ THE DESCRIPTION
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Vectrexoscope Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
This wins the award for: most stupid stamp ever made on DeviantArt.
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illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Lol that cant this stamp will never go away.

She just has an opinion jeez...
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Vectrexoscope Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Your reply was useless.

It's an opinion huh???
Ok. It's a stupid opinion then.

Also, there's a right to disagree. ;D
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:iconilly2002:
illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
ok then. i do my shit and you do yours.
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Vectrexoscope Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
:dummy::iconyesbubbleplz:
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:iconilly2002:
illy2002 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
yep.
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Squirates Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yay
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sugarpunkdoe Featured By Owner Dec 30, 2014  New member
I feel like it teaches the wrong/most unsafe ways to have sex.
I personally prefer anthro drawn porn to watching real people do it. People's parts are gross :X
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Freiheit1994 Featured By Owner Feb 17, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Anyone who uses porn as any kind of "How to Have Sex 101" is as dumb as people who think Fifty Shades of Grey accurately portrays BDSM. Hell, a lot of porn I feel goes overboard, so I usually stick to the homemade movies with bad lighting and angles because at least they're not acting.
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sugarpunkdoe Featured By Owner Feb 18, 2015  New member
Don't get me started on 50 Shades of Grey :rage:
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:iconfreiheit1994:
Freiheit1994 Featured By Owner Feb 18, 2015  Student Digital Artist
50 Shades of Grey needs to die
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